June: The Foundation Month

Posted by on Jun 6, 2018 in Articles, Long Distance Marriage

June: The Foundation Month

I love June.

And this year, it’s when the Mitchell Men will descend on the U.S.

And we’re halfway through 2018 already.

This year has been one of transitions. We’ve had some loss, and some upheavals with our jobs. We’ve spent time together that we didn’t have planned. We’ve rolled with some punches. The honeymoon has definitely ended, and now the work to put together a long-distance marriage is in full swing. That means learning to deal with life-altering moments separately, when other married couples would have each other physically present daily. That has been hard to recognize and breakdown, and define.

Our marriage has a lot of thrills. There’s always a homecoming coming up. Everyone loves a countdown. But the trade-off to the fun travel and reunions is also having all the communication difficulties of a normal working relationship and low-to-no physical presence, not to mention comfort. Sometimes, just being present while your spouse is suffering, just making tea and just BEING there, is enough.

This year has taught me not to take that ability for granted in my marriage, and do what I can to provide as much communication as possible as a substitute. In this marriage, for now, too much communication really isn’t possible. It fills in some of the other gaps. Because:

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